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Monday, November 25, 2013

Denying Self


“And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.”

~Galatians 5:24


That verse means when we commit ourselves to God we our giving up ourselves completely. There are two major issues we find though in the world today.

1.   We are so self-focused we do not know how to completely give ourselves over to the Lord.

2.   We consider ourselves to be useless and ugly; of no value or importance.

 

Let’s start with number one.
The definition of self is: “The entire person of an individual.”
Have you ever wanted something with your whole being? Take a minute to think about it. Maybe it was car, or a job, or a guy/girl. Whatever is was we have all had a moment of wanting something with everything we have inside. The thing is God wants us to feel that way about Him all the time. He wants us to wake up everyday and decide that today is not about us. We have to give ourselves up.

(Luke 9:23)
“And He said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let Him deny himself and take up His cross daily and follow Me.”

 Our thoughts always tend to wander don’t they? Thoughts like: “It’s impossible to give my self completely. I mean your WHOLE being, isn’t that a little unrealistic. How bout I give you an hour today God?”
We are so easy to forget what God has done for us.

(Luke 23:32-36)
 Two other men, both criminals, were also led out with him to be executed. 33 When they came to the place called the Skull, they crucified him there, along with the criminals—one on his right, the other on his left. 34 Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”[c] And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.
35 The people stood watching, and the rulers even sneered at him. They said, “He saved others; let him save himself if he is God’s Messiah, the Chosen One.”
36 The soldiers also came up and mocked him. They offered him wine vinegar 37 and said, “If you are the king of the Jews, save yourself.”


(Luke 23:44-46)
44 It was now about noon, and darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon, 45 for the sun stopped shining. And the curtain of the temple was torn in two.46 Jesus called out with a loud voice, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit.” When he had said this, he breathed his last.

Do you know what He just did? He just died. He just gave himself up completely for you. Body and spirit He sacrificed to God for us. Can we not do the same?
He had full power and full authority to save Himself yet He didn’t. He made a willing choice to die for each and every one of our mistakes and sins that we would ever commit.

(Mark 8:35)
“For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever looses his life for My sake and the gospel’s will save it.”



Let’s move on to number two. Technically speaking this one should come before what we just talked about, but I wanted you to understand what it meant to sacrifice yourself before I went on to this one. So often we consider ourselves to be useless and ugly; of no value or importance.

You may be a bit confused. I know I was when I first thought about this. Are we not supposed to consider ourselves worthless, and God so worthy? Okay, there is difference between putting yourself higher then God, and thinking of yourself, His creation, as ugly and unimportant. We are not higher then God, but we are also not ugly and unimportant. If we were useless why would Jesus die for us? Self-image is a big issue. The way you see yourself, reflects your relationship with God. You can look at any magazine in a grocery store and immediately feel worthless and ugly. But that’s not the point. Do you know what your body is made for?

 

(1 Corinthian 6:19)

“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own.”

 

(Ecclesiastes 12:7)

“And the dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it.”


Your body is just a carrying device. It is a protective coat over your spirit. It was made out of dirt and to the dirt it will return. So, why may I ask are we so concerned with what dirt looks like and not what our spirit looks like. Your body is not worthless, but God did not create it for us to look in the mirrors and see worthlessness, and ugliness. Move your focus. Your focus should be on the things you cannot see in a mirror. Can you see God? No, so put your focus on Him.

(2 Corinthian 4:18)
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”


Our bodies are temporary moving trucks for our spirits. They are a dwelling place for the Lord. And most of all our bodies are not ours, their God’s. Every time you criticize your body for not being what we deem to be “perfect,” you criticize God and you criticize His creation.

Each day you get up you have to die to yourself. You have to make a commitment to live in a way that is all about God. Life is not about me, and it is not about you. Life is about how you can make God the center focus of the world, and that starts with making Him the enter focus of your own life.


~Hasta Luago Caiman! 

Monday, November 18, 2013

Musical Ability

"Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth, burst into jubilant song with music..."
~Psalm 98:4

I was blessed to be born into a family with very strong musical abilities. We are like the Von Trapp Family Singers, only we do a little more on instruments then with our voice.
My Mother plays the flute, my Father plays the tuba, my oldest brother plays the cello and guitar, my other brother plays the violin, piano, guitar, mandolin, banjo, and I am sure others, my little sister plays the flute, and everyone can sing. So, you may be wondering what my musical talent is. Well, honestly I do not know.
(My oldest brother Daniel playing the cello)
When I was 5 my mother began teaching me the flute, and when my sister was old enough teaching her the piano. At 13 and 10 we decided we didn't want to play the instruments we were learning we wanted to play each others instruments. So we switched. I have now been trying to learn the piano, and she has been learning the flute. We have both gotten pretty far, but I must confess I struggle with time to practice and my piano playing ability's are lacking. I can play a little, but the way I put it is, "my family plays the music, I dance to it." I could also sing. But I am definitely not fluent in the language of piano, though I hope to be one day! :) My artistic ability right now is focused more on my ballet positions and projection, then scales and notes. However my dreams are still there. 
I am so thankful and blessed to be born into my musical family. There is never a dull moment. It is wonderful to watch things come together in a song. It is truly inspirational to watch my family use their talent to bless others and glorify God. 

~Hasta Luago Caiman!    


Sunday, November 17, 2013

Family Nights

"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."
~Philippians 4:8


We have a lot of family time in our family. It is wonderful to be able to spend so much time hanging out together. We often run it to a problem though. 
What to do!
That seems like the age old question that gets asked. "What movie are we watching?" "What game are we going to play?" It used to be dreadful, but now we have figured out things that everyone loves, and focus on those things, while still trying new things as well!
This post is to help you with family night ideas. To help you break the ice.

These are some of our family nights...

Sunday: Each Sunday we have Pizza Night. Mom makes homemade pizza from scratch to finish, but it is not hard. After she has made the dough we all come in and help cut up, and put on the toppings. We usually make three pizzas, meat (For the boys), veggie (For the girls), and half cheese half peperoni. (For the picky eaters) After the pizza is made we lay out the pizza blanket, have pizza, and watch a movie. (Side note: The pizza blanket is an African blanket my uncle gave us that we lay out to eat on.) Some of our family's favorite movies include: 
October Baby
Fly Wheel
Facing The Giants
Fireproof
Courageous
Grace Card
The Waltons Episodes
The Blind Side
Evan Almighty
and of course Duck Dynasty Episodes!



TV Shows: During the summer our family TV show was America's Got Talent we would all gather round to watch in awe and giggles as our favorite performers walked on stage. In the fall and winter our family show is Survivor. On TV show nights we settle down in our chosen spots to enjoy the fun activities on screen. A good perk for these nights is a bowl of popcorn and some snugly blankets.



Mini Family: Apart from complete family nights we have what I like to call mini family nights, or one on one time. These nights typically involve just Daddy and daughter. My mini night is watching The Amazing Race with my Daddy, on Mondays after I get back from dance. My sister's mini night is watching old TV shows like, Leave it to Beaver, I Love Lucy, and The Brady Bunch before bed occasionally. They also like to play cards sometimes, Kings Corner, Go Fish, etc.




Game Night: Our game night is any weekend night that everyone is home, but often times it is now anytime we are all together whether it is Tuesday at lunch, or Saturday night. After taking a survey of my family, I am able to give you every one's favorite games.

Emilee - Clue
Dad - Monopoly
Mom - Blokus
Daniel - Risk 
Matthew - Rook    
Me - Balderdash
Other favorite include:
Banagrams
Imaginiff
Life 
Trouble
Rummy
and Bohnanza


Family nights in our house can be rambunctious, crazy, and very competitive, but one thing is for sure, never underestimate the power of family time! 

~Hasta Luago Caiman!     

Friday, November 8, 2013

Fear vs. Peace

"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubles and do not be afraid."

~John 14:27

What is Peace?  According to the dictionary peace means: 
In a state of tranquility; serene
Free from strife.






If God tells us to have peace, why is it so hard to do that?

Have you ever heard someone say, "It's okay to be afraid."  This is one statement I really do not like. If the bible clearly says "Do not be afraid." Why are we telling others it is okay?  The only thing I believe is worthy of fear is God, and that is a completely different kind of fear.


What does fear do to us? What do we gain from fear, and worry....nothing!  So why is it so often our go to emotion?  Is it because we are human, because sin is in the world.  It may be all of those things, but this post is not a discouragement, but an encouragement!  When I am fearful my favorite two passages of scripture are Matthew 6:25-34-

  
25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?


28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin.29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

 and
2 Timothy 1:7-
"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."


Next time you feel fearful and discouraged instead of saying to yourself, "It's okay to to be afraid." remember, "God has not given us a spirit of fear."

~Hasta Luago Caiman!

Friday, November 1, 2013

Happy 18th Birthday Matthew!

"Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him."

~Psalm 127:3


Guess what today is? It is my amazing brother's 18th birthday!!!! 



 I cannot believe how grown up he is! It seems like just yesterday we were playing dress up, building legos, playing basketball, and so much more.

 Being the middle children we were partners in crime, but the funny thing is that even though our activities have changed we are still partners in crime. :D Now I have the joy of new activites like going to mid-night premires, playing cards, picking on siblings, driving everywhere, and going to see AWESOME broadway musicals like The Lion King! I cannot say enough how much he means to me and how much he has given for me. He has the biggest, sweetest, kindest, heart and continually pours it out giving what he has to bless others. He has a strong heart for God.
 All I can say Matthew is to shoot for the stars. Set a goal and don't be afriad to set high ones! 
God has blessed you with so many talents! Violin, singing, theater, knowledge, writting, etc.

(Matthew as the guest soloist for the Greensboro Adult Orchestra:) 




I will always be right here to support you. 
Keep your eyes on God and begin to fly! <3  


<3 I love you! Partners in crime forever big brother! <3